As I’m sure your aware in August 2017 I was told the news that I had a rare but life threatening pregnancy complication. I faced my ultimate fear, death!
I vowed in the days before my surgery (and afterwards when I had a twisted bowel and then later gallstones) that I would be a better person, I vowed to change, to live life better.
So we are now a year past my last operation and what’s changed?
Well I took the kids out of school for a bit. Looking for a life of travel and life education. But when your solo parenting 4 its just not that easy. When you have a Aldi lemonade budget but want to live a Waitrose Prosecco lifestyle it was never going to work. Besides Jake struggled with the fact he still had to do “school” work.
I ate better for a bit. Then as the fear of the pain eased the chocolate & fish n chips creeped back in.
I returned to swimming and after a short break have now returned again.
I’ve took up doing a 20 min walk 3 times a week. (Up until we all got sick & the cold snap hit. It’s no fun walking up a steep hill with a pushchair when it’s like a skate rink.)
Unfortunately as a family we seem to have drifted further apart lately. Chris works long hours and travels away quite a bit with work.
Don’t get me wrong we had some amazing trips in 2018 but him working the hours he does and only living pay check to pay check is tough for us all.
So what has really changed?
I’m still feeling lost with who I am. Where I want to be.
I had such plans last year maybe it was the adrenaline from the fear of dying that spurred me on.
It’s like we’re stuck in a bit of a rut waiting for a better life. Waiting for the kids to grow. Waiting until we’re in a better financial place.
Well I want to figure out what I can do as a career. I have often said in the past that I want to make this blog and social media a way of making income but I all honesty I don’t think I’m cut out for it.
I think I’ve lost my passion for blogging a little because I’m trying to hard to make it work as a business. I’ve lost sight of my ‘why’.
I need to crack on with my #fitfor40 because that big number will be here in a flash.
I need to figure out a way to get our family living a better relationship. Stop the fighting and negativity.
Make the most of life. Breath in every second.
I don’t know. Maybe I’ll be back here in a year with the same post wishing I’d lived better for the past year. Maybe this time is the time. Our time to find a better way to live life!
I just want to say thank-you to all of you that have supported me over the past year and a half or more.
To those that live in my phone and take the time to comment, ask how I’m doing, and support from afar. You help me each and every day.
Those that are there in my real life I don’t know what I would do without you.
So thank-you from the bottom of my heart.
Until next time.